Who is the reason behind all this blockage, confusion, and communication issues in this relationship — in any relationship?

Because I didn’t have higher expectations. I knew the financial situation. It was not about wanting a very financially secure life. Both people knew the reality. So who turned this upside down?

I don’t know.

What is the actual issue?

I don’t know.

One person is emotionally so invested. The other is emotionally absent.

Is there anyone who can help make this be at ease? To solve this? To have a peaceful separation or peaceful bonding?

We don’t know what the consequences will be. We don’t know what the end of this relationship will be. We don’t know the climax. We don’t know the next phase.

But this is not what I felt. This is not what I wanted. That I know for sure.

Man proposes, God disposes. That is how it feels.

I don’t know what this blockage is. A karmic blockage? I don’t know what to call it. I don’t have a name for what is happening between two people.

Is it just two people involved? Or are other people controlling the strings? I don’t know.

Does anyone ask what I want? Does anyone ask the other person what they want from this?

I don’t know.

Who ruins relationships? Is it just the two people? Or the people around them?

I don’t know.

Who has to take charge in a relationship? The ones who are in it.

Shouldn’t they communicate?

Yes, communication solves a lot of things.

But ego… ego overpowers everything.

Who has to do the processing?

I think the two people involved in any relationship — maybe parents, partners, friends, business partners, whoever it may be — those two people have to take the decision. At least they should know what they want out of this. They should know how to take the next step.

If the people involved in any relationship don’t know how to deal with it, don’t know how to make the other feel understood, don’t know how to communicate with each other, don’t know what the other person wants, then everything is gone.

No clarity. Just some unseen, invisible strings attached to them, not letting them move on, not letting them go further.

It’s like tying two people in opposite directions, and both are trying to run in their own direction, but they can’t because those strings are pulling them back.

And who will help? Who has to help?

Those who read this — do you know the answer?

I do know the answer. But if the persons involved in the relationship don’t know the answer, no one can help them. No therapist, no family, no friend, even law can’t help them.

It is they who have to get out of it, to figure it out, to understand their feelings, rather than playing a role — playing the script of others, playing the script written by others.

So what do these people want? Will they ever figure it out?

I feel so sad. Not pity — but sad.

They don’t know. Some people really don’t know.

But when they finally know, maybe time would have passed. The chance.

There is always a chance. The universe will always give a chance to clear things, to create clarity in anything.

But if you lose that chance, you won’t find the answer.

So is it better to get out of the bus when the bus is not going in the direction you planned?

And if you feel like even though the road has changed, the destination is still where you wanted to go — then what is the answer?

I’m asking you.

If you take a bus that was not planned according to the route map you wished for, but the destination is the same, would you get out of it? Or would you stay on that bus?

Have you ever thought about it?